Thursday, September 8, 2016
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"Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master" - Pastor Chris Oyakhilome
"Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master. The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners.If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.
In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because
he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think
he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are
wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are
married to and his needs.
When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority.
The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3)
so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not
authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.
When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a
rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are
not functioning correctly. Why did God make the woman?
Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31
“Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very
good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea.
This is reality.
Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be
alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”. There is a big
difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him
an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special
advisor or someone to tell him what to do.
I will make him someone to help him. God gave man a responsibility so
woman was made to help man achieve that responsibility. If this is
understood in every home then you won’t have problems.
I tell people that you don’t need a marriage seminar, you need the Word
Seminar. Let me tell you, no husband wants another mother, he has had
one all his life. He doesn’t want an older sister, he probably had one.
Your secret is in obedience, your secret is in listening to your
husband, your secret is in doing the things that please him. When you
don’t do the things that please him, you take the role of a mother or of
an older sister.
A man loves the one he serves (God) and the one that serves him (a good
wife). He fights the one that wants to be at the same level with him (a
rebellious wife).
To be happy in your family and home is the easiest thing in the world,
just take your role. Take your place. That place that God gave you is a
beautiful place. Its a place of peace. Its a place of love. It’s a place
of excellence.
Every wise person listens to wise voices (advice) but he listens to a wise voice that is presented wisely.
Everyone rebels against the voice that is trying to make a fool out of
him. When you want to correct your husband, don’t lord it over
him,present it as a wise suggestion. Humble yourself and be smart.
A wise woman will always be an influence to her husband, the foolish one
will always annoy the husband, make him mad, make him angry and when
you make him angry, you will be the victim. Learn to listen to your
husband, practice it, tell yourself that you are going to do it because
that is where your beauty is.
Once you stop listening, your beauty evaporates. You wonder why you are
dressing and he can’t see it, he doesn’t remember your last hair style.
Beauty is in obedience. That’s where the Glory is.''
#Excerpts from Pastor Chris' Teaching!
22-year-old student shot and killed in Brooklyn after she told male dancer to stop grinding against her
A 22-year-old American college student was fatally shot in the face at
the J’Ouvert festival in Brooklyn after she told a man to stop grinding
against her.
St. John’s University student Tiarah Poyau was walking the pre-West Indian Day Parade route with three friends early Monday when she was accosted and told the man, "Get off me.’ Her friends, who were walking ahead of her at around 4:15 a.m., then heard a shot and saw her fall at Empire Boulevard and Franklin Avenue.
Poyau had been shot in the eye at close range.
"This young lady is just a stellar person," said Chief of Detectives Robert Boyce. "No issues in her life whatsoever, and none before either"
The 20-year-old thug who shot her was nabbed Tuesday morning, September 6th, while drunkenly driving on a three wheels 2002 Ford Explorer and with a Caribbean flag wrapped around his bloody hand, according to police. He is being charged with murder and depraved indifference.
Before his arrest, suspect identified as Reginald Moise,20, told
friends, "I think I shot somebody on the parade route. I didn’t know
the gun was loaded," sources said. He had called his cousin looking to
stash the murder weapon at her house. When he arrived, Moise then barely
missed killing a one-year-old boy sleeping in his crib after he shot up
a relative's apartment while hiding the gun. The bullet went through
the relative's wall and into a neighbour's apartment
A cop who was at the scene with his partners took to Instagram to narrate Tiarah's last moments on earth.
"Her name was Tiarah Poyau and on Sunday night while My partners and I didn't know her We spent her last moments on earth with her while she lay dying. Maybe it's because I'm a dad, maybe it's because I'm a human, maybe it's because I care, I don't know. I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. I cried on the way home from work for the first time in a long time. So sad. To her family I'm sorry for your loss if you ever see this. Know that we tried our best. God bless her and her family." Lohman wrote.
NYC Mayor Bill DiBlaiso had put a cancellation of the annual festival "on the table"
More photos of the victim below...
Source: New York Post/Bossip
Evil mum sells 10yr old daughter for a bottle of vodka and £1.30 before watching him rape
The little girl was later found, scared and crying with her legs covered
in blood, near the block of flats where the alleged attack occurred.
The man after he was arrested by police reportedly claimed that having
'bought' the child from her mum, he could do 'whatever he liked' with
her.
The child has since been released from hospital and is in the care of an
orphanage as she is so scared she doesn't want to set her eyes on her
mum.
The woman is expected to face police questioning, but has not yet been
detained while the man denies sexually assaulting the child.
Source : MirrorUK
RCCG's Pastor Adeboye and wife celebrate 49th wedding anniversary
The General overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God RCCG,
Pastor E.A Adeboye and his wife, Foluke, are celebrating their 49th
wedding anniversary today September 8th. They got married on September
8th 1967 and are blessed with four children and many grand children.
See more photos from their early married life after the cut.
Angry woman strips to just her bra and starts attacking cars with metal pole (photos)
An angry woman known as Miss Li undressed to nothing but a bra and
started randomly attacking cars with a metal bar in China around 9 a.m on Wednesday.
More photos and the video below.
The woman stripped and started shouting and screaming at moving cars,
she then grabbed a large metal pole and started swinging it towards
vehicles on one of Beijing's busiest roads.
According to eye witnesses, Miss Li ignored the horns of cars and
continued to shout incoherent phrases and even at one time started
singing songs during the attack.
After she tore off one vehicle’s licence plate she began attacking a
public bus before Chaoyang District police arrived to wrap a blanket
around her and arrest her.
From Primary school classmates to a Wedding in the works, Lady shares her love story (photos)
Lara Akinyemi shared her love story via Social Media. From being primary
school classmates with her husband-to-be Adeniyi Okubanjo in Grait
children school, Ota, back in 1997, to him contacting her on Facebook in
2009, this lucky couple found love with one another. Read her story
below.
"I don't really know how to write these types of stories, i will just struggle. Our love story started on Facebook!! Believe it or not. In the afternoon of sept 2009 , i was in med school then, got a msg from an old primary school mate (couldn't even remember him). I had 2 confirm from my class pics.
I almost never reply FB msgs especially from strangers, don't even read them most times. We started talking, apparently he had been sending msgs 2 all d Lara Akinyemis without profile pics on FB cos he had just me in mind since he was a pupil (he had eye for smetin good since childhood and was in love since 199somthing, bad child hahahahaa). The rest is history cos the story is still long oo.. I'm getting married to my longterm boo. I don't know how to say those romantic things like u're my cockroach in my cupboard, skeleton in my wardrobe etc #LaraNiyi2016"Their Facebook chat below...
Tuesday, September 6, 2016
The Discovery for women make –Over session returns for a life transforming fourth season
On Wednesday, 7th of September 2016. The event which will take place at the Multipurpose Hall (A&B), University of Lagos, Akoka will feature a keynote address by Pastor Nomthi Odukoya (Vice President Discovery for Women) and break sessions with mentors including:
- Amarachi Ubani (Newscaster, Media)
- Nkechi Harry Ngonadi (CEO NHN Coutoure, Fashion)
- Glowreeyah Braimah (Artist, Music)
- Adesumbo Adeoye (CEO ESOB Events, Event Planning)
- Mosunmola Umoru (Technical Adviser Youth and Gender, Agriculture)
MC: Lolo 1
Red Carpet: 4pm
Actress Mary Uranta throws lavish birthday party for friends (photos)
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